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Names you probably think of — real and fiction — when you hear the word “sociopath”. In fact, many researchers believe that 1 in 25 Americans fit the criteria for sociopathy. This book discusses the predictability of violence – great for avoiding sociopaths. Especially around those who claim that by dominating others they are helping a greater good. Know the difference between compliments and flattery. Sociopaths take full advantage of our social reflexes. Know that most of us do, thankfully, posses a conscience, and can love. But here’s another item I’d add to the list, something I’ve been known to say in my sessions with clients: 14) (That’s not a typo. In a nutshell, because of the unrelenting boredom they feel, sociopaths create drama, take massive risks – even, sometimes, kill.

For help in protecting yourself from violence in general – including sociopathic violence, I strongly recommend Gavin de Becker’s book, The Gift of Fear. Although sociopaths are great actors, and can feign hurt feelings, know that they have no feelings to hurt – they are manipulating you. Related to this: challenge your need to be polite in all situations. Second (and third and fourth) chances are for those who have a conscience. Although another favorite sociopathic trick is to defer blame and make other’s take responsibility for their behavior, “You owe me,” is another favorite phrase of the sociopath, know that you are not at fault. “’Please don’t tell,’ is the trademark plea of thieves, child abusers – and sociopaths,” writes Stout. Others deserve to be warned more than the sociopath deserves to be protected. Don’t let someone without a conscience try to convince you that people aren’t good. Disturbing, isn’t it, to think about one in 25 of us having no conscience. Disturbing to think about the ease with which a sociopath creates a swath of destruction…and that they get away with it…all you can do, usually, is steer clear. For a thorough discussion on this, read Stout’s book.

Following is a paraphrase of what is written in her book. I’m curious to hear: what sociopaths have you encountered in your lives?

Stout lists “Thirteen Rules For Dealing With Sociopaths In Everyday Life.” I love this list and found it enlightening. “In a contest between your instincts and what is implied by the role a person has taken on – educator, doctor, leader, animal lover, policeman, humanist, parent – go with your instincts,” Stout urges. I write this not in the spirit of schadenfreude, but rather in celebration of ability, the majority of us, to live lives full of depth, meaning, relationship, and love.

Being scarred by prior disappointments in guys who cheated on them, many women are unable to enjoy their present relationship, even when everything seems to be great, because of that constant fear that sooner or later their boyfriend, or a husband will cheat on them, just like the others did in the past.

Wouldn’t it be nice to recognize a sociopath before they do their damage? Sociopaths can, because they are unhindered by guilt, manipulate their way to the top. They inspire a feeling of familiarity: “I just felt like I’d known her forever! Sociopaths are expert in identifying an easy mark – they can pick out the most trusting, decent person in the room.

But the defining characteristic of a sociopath is a person who has no conscience. An ability to move through life with complete disregard for their actions: no remorse, no capacity for shame, and no guilt. They have magnetism, an affinity for danger, spontaneity. They engage in gaslighting – making you doubt your perceptions of reality.

An inability – not a choice, but an inability – to care or even think about the feelings of anyone else. and only then, sometimes, to those who have learned to identify a sociopath. They are described as charming, with an almost animal-like charisma. They create distractions with social/professional roles: animal lover, humanitarian, benefactor.

Many sociopaths live their lives relatively undetected – except, perhaps, by those closest to them…




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